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Misguided
Motivations
I am a 51-year-old gay male seeking a long-term relationship
with a French male. For a year I’ve scoured the Internet trying to find such a person,
without success. I don’t speak French, but I start classes at the end
of the month. Can you help?
Darrell
Darrell, I once overheard a group of teenage
girls talking about “the
man I will marry.” One said, “He will be tall with
sandy hair, blue eyes, and a successful architect.” Each
of the others also “knew” exactly who they would
marry.
That’s what your letter reminds me of. You’re picking
someone French the way you might pick a blue sweater. That only
works with inanimate objects. Love comes first. When there is
love, it doesn’t matter if the other person is short or
German or sandy-haired.
Tamara
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